I'm 22...do I need a financial planner?

Hi Sandi,

I am a 22-year-old and just starting my career. Do I need a financial planner and is talking to a financial advisor at the bank the same thing as talking to a financial planner? 

Thank you,

Denise

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Hi Denise,

You know, you have an enormous opportunity to "get things right" as you move forward with your life. If in this next few years you can learn and keep healthy money habits and attitudes, your future will be a lot easier than those of us that waited until our thirties (or forties, or fifties...) to pay attention.

I'd say for you the most important thing to learn is how to keep your spending and savings aligned with what you want to do in life, without spending more than you earn. The second most important thing to learn is how to invest rationally for the long-term without paying more than you should.

Some people learn at least one of those principles easily on their own, or by reading a few good books and blogs. Some people need a little more help, depending on how little they know when they start and if they learn easier when they have someone to talk to about it.

Who you talk to...well...obviously I'm biased towards my own model and the models of professionals whose only business is to give you advice. The business of the bank is to make money by selling products, so it's sometimes hard to tell if the person you talk to at the bank has your best interests in mind, or if they're under pressure from their manager to sell you a credit card, start a monthly TFSA/RRSP contribution into an expensive mutual fund, and get you out the door in under an hour so they can see the next person in line.

From my experience, I know for certain that there are some of the former type in banking, so you could get lucky, but there's a lot more of the latter type. It's not because they're bad people, it's that they either don't know any better, or their own financial well-being depends on pleasing their manager or their manager's manager.

Whew. This is turning into a long answer. I'm happy to spend a half-hour or so chatting with you about your particular circumstances to see if you really should pay someone for advice or if a couple of good book recommendations might work just as well as a starting point.

Best,Sandi

If You've Ever Tried and Failed at Budgeting

If you've ever tried and failed at budgeting, or if you've never tried at all because it sounds so hard and boring, this post is for you.

Those of you with a budgeting system that works and that you possibly even love and want to have babies with are excused for the day. Those of you who are convinced that budgeting doesn't work are kindly asked to leave the room and do a little more thinking on that subject.

Okay, now that it's just us, let me tell you a secret: I've tried (and failed) at budgeting so many times that it would be embarrassing if I sincerely thought that it was easy (it isn't) and everyone else knew how to do it (they don't). The truth is, budgeting is hard and boring. Anyone who tells you different has a book to sell.

But it's still worth doing.

Budgeting is worth doing if you have limited income and lots of commitments. It's worth doing if you spend more than you make and have been for years. It's worth doing if you're naturally frugal, if you have joint accounts, if your income is hard to predict, or if you have more money than God.

The cloud of tv shows and books and blog posts (probably even this one) that swirls around the concept of budgeting obscures its value, which is:

  • To know how much we have available to spend right now, given the commitments we’ve made for the immediate future

  • To set aside money we don’t need now for things we know or think we’ll need in the future

  • To base our future spending decisions on a documented (rather than estimated) past

  • To know if a sudden or contemplated change to our income or expenses will be sustainable over the long term, and whether we should adjust our spending before it becomes a crisis

And finding a budgeting system that works for you, whatever your circumstances, is a matter of deciding why you're budgeting in the first place...and only then deciding on a system to do it.

Starting with a system without thinking about what it has to do for you is one of the two reasons people fail at budgeting. (The other reason is that they're using too many categories, btw.)

For example: You're self-employed, with irregular income, joint expenses with your spouse, and a little bit of debt you'd like to get out from under. A particularly painful month makes it very clear that you've got to do something about your money, so you sign up for Mint.

You enthusiastically set up your accounts and create a budget, logging in on your cell phone throughout the day and categorizing transactions enthusiastically...until your bank balance doesn't quite match your Mint balance, and you realize that you forgot to budget enough for food but budgeted too much for shoes, and you were sick that week so you stopped checking whether Mint was categorizing your transactions properly, and now you've finally found a good deal on an almost-new freezer that you've been looking for for months on Kijiji and are flipping between your bank account and your Mint account trying to figure out if you can afford to take out the $400 to pay for it without throwing a major wrench into the next few weeks before your clients pay you, so...you think you've failed at budgeting.

Or: You and your partner work full-time at great-paying jobs, but have limited free time to do all of the million and one things you need and/or want to do, like spend time with your kids and cook at home. Every once in a while you think "we make lots of money...shouldn't we have more to show for it?", so one day you sign up for YNAB, take a few evenings to watch the videos, and begin assigning a job to every dollar you earn.

You faithfully enter your transactions for a week, but realize your partner hasn't been, and - given the punishing deadlines at work - probably won't. You know you're really supposed to enter those purchases manually, and feel kind of guilty every time you download them from the bank, and then your team starts a really exciting project, your kids finish the school year, and it's not like you can't pay off your credit card bill every month, and - besides - you make lots of money, so...you think you've failed at budgeting.

You aren't wrong to get discouraged (although in each case you could conceivably have succeeded by dint of sheer bullheadedness). You're just using a budgeting system not particularly well-suited for your circumstances. You're spending your time solving a problem of lesser significance than your real problem. You're using a rolled-up newspaper to fight off a bear, or a bazooka to get that damned chipmunk off your lawn.

Those people that we dismissed earlier? The ones who were in love with their budgeting system? They're not us. What works for someone willing to helpfully share their opinion on reddit might not work for you for any number of very legitimate reasons.

So here's what I propose: before you read another budgeting book, or test-drive another system, think about the most important problem you're trying to solve. Is it really important to know how much you can spend now, and of lesser importance that you know how you spent last month? Are you trying to plan for the future and need to know what your normal and comfortable spending patterns are, but don't have any real reason to change them?

(Some people can't even answer this question right away. If you genuinely don't know where to start, don't sweat it. You'll get there.)

I've failed at budgeting in the past. Many long years of trial and error, punctuated by brief bursts of book-inspired inspiration and longer bursts of discouragement have taught me this: the books aren't necessarily wrong, anybody can make any budget system work (eventually), and chipmunks can be scared off with bazookas, but budgeting works best if you know why you're doing it in the first place, and only then choose a tool that's appropriate for the task.

VIDEO SERIES: Carrick Talks Money

I had a chance to meet with Rob Carrick at the Globe and Mail in February and record three Carrick Talks Money segments. Our goal was to demystify financial planning for regular people and to demonstrate that it's not an exclusive exercise for the wealthy.

Carrick Talks Money: How a financial planner can lighten your load

Rob asks what financial planning for average families looks like and we discuss the difference between financial planning and investment advice.

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Carrick Talks Money: How much does a financial planner charge?

Rob asks what the cost of financial planning would be for a family with young kids or a couple close to retirement, and we laugh the kind of financial plans that are really just huge reports that go in a drawer and no one ever reads.

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The biggest financial planning mistakes people make

Rob asks me what kind of mistakes I see people making often. Spoiler alert: I talk about cash flow.

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Life is a Highway: Sequence of Returns and You

I've been sitting on this post for a few weeks now, worrying that it's too long, and the point I'm trying to make is going to be lost in all the words, so I'll make it really simple for those of you who won't get through 2000+ words:

The markets are going to do what the markets are going to do, there is no portfolio on earth that will keep your portfolio going up when everyone else's are going down every single time, so stop worrying about what the market will do in your lifetime and start focusing on what you can control: your spending, your savings, and your expectations.

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If I told you that the day you were born is the most significant number in your investing life, and that it has more to do with the path your investments will follow than your asset allocation, your annual savings rate, or the management fees you're paying, you'd think I'd developed a fascination with astrology and had to consult a star chart before rebalancing, wouldn't you?

It's true (though not the astrology part). The particular sequence of market returns that you'll enjoy (but not necessarily participate in, more on that later) throughout your lifetime starts when you're born, ends when you die, is entirely outside of your control, and, if you're not careful, will heavily influence when you start investing, how you'll do it, and your outlook on life when you turn those investments into income."

Sequence of returns", for those of you not interested in reading retirement income research on a daily basis, simply means the order in which your portfolio performs: a portfolio that has a good year followed by a bad year will be very different than a portfolio that has a bad year followed by a good year.

Sequence of Returns as a Highway

Think of your personal sequence of returns as the only highway you can take to get to your destination. If you plan on living off of your savings in retirement and have a finite ability to save, you're on the highway.

I recently had the pleasure of driving down to Toronto twice in two weeks. On both trips I left at the same time and drove the same route: Highway 11 to 400 to 401 West to the Don Valley Parkway and into the heart of the city, but I arrived at very different times and experienced very different driving conditions along the way.

If you've ever driven toward Toronto (or any major city) first thing in the morning, you'll be familiar with what I experienced. I had a little bit of control over when I left (early), but zero control over when everyone else left (late, apparently), how they drove when they got on the highway (meh), whether construction had closed any lanes (it had), and whether it was snowing (once) or not (once).

The first trip was fast until I hit the city, and then much slower as I made my way across and down into the heart of the city. The second trip started slow and never really sped up from there, and I'm fairly certain that the entire province of Ontario and most of Manitoba had decided to drive into Toronto that morning with me.

Stress in the Driver's Seat and What You Can Control

Now, if you're the type who likes to drive but gets stressed out by traffic, the first trip wouldn't have been too bad. You would have faced the increased traffic at the end of the trip with equanimity, knowing that the light traffic at the beginning had given you plenty of time to get where you needed to go. It would have been to easy make good decisions at a relatively leisurely pace.

The second trip, on the other hand, would have started off bad and gotten worse from there. The slow start, heavy traffic, and bad weather would have stressed you out, and as your appointed arrival time got closer, the pressure would have increased, you would have driven faster (when you could) and left less room between you and the car in front of you.

The amount of time you gave yourself to make decisions would have probably gotten shorter, and the resulting decisions consequently worse.

Without stretching the metaphor too far, your market returns may start slow, speed up in the middle, grind forward inch by inch, and stop completely for a while before shooting forward quickly and then slowing down again with no concern for where you are in life. You have control over when you start and how you behave once you're in the market, but not the speed with which it travels.

And here is where the metaphor ends, because - of course - there's plenty of reliable information available about the future to a motorist: turn on most radio stations and they'll tell you if the road you're on has a few lanes closed, or is moving quickly, or if you should take another route entirely. Except for the fact that markets generally go up in aggregate, there's no such thing as reliable future information for investors to act on both consistently and profitably, and anybody who tells you different is selling something.

At the beginning of this piece, I cautioned you to be careful about letting your sequence of returns influence your behaviour in the markets, and this is where I want to focus: despite the fact that the market itself cannot be controlled, you can control your own behaviour.

When Sequence of Returns Matters

Early on in your savings and investing life, the sequence of market returns assigned to you by the accident of your birthday aren't much of a big deal, provided you can keep your head level and your costs low. For you, my advice is to embrace complacency, watch your fees, and keep on saving.

Later on in life, however, when the time comes for your investments to fulfil their purpose and provide you with income, the effect that your particular sequence of market returns has becomes a very big deal indeed. Anyone that has to withdraw a certain amount of money from their portfolio by selling invested assets (no matter what the price of those assets happens to be that day) is exposed to sequence of returns risk in a very big and important way.

You might be ready - so ready - to retire just as the market takes a nosedive and stays there for a while. Your neighbour, someone a few years younger or older than you, who earned the same amount, saved the same amount, and wants roughly the same kind of retirement as you do might be ready to retire just as markets start shooting upwards.

You, with that disappointing sequence of returns the market and your birthday handed you might stick to your asset allocation, delay retirement, reduce your spending, and be more or less fine. Or you might get desperate, start taking bigger and bigger risks, scrabble for higher yields, pay for guarantees you don't really understand, and generally drive your portfolio irresponsibly in the hopes of getting a few inches closer to your goal without seeing the hazards you're exposing yourself to.

Your neighbour might be lulled into thinking that his incredibly favourable sequence of returns was the result of his own special skill, take stupid risks, spend without thinking, and end up in much the same position as you but with no idea how he got there. Or he might realize that his sequence of returns was a fortunate turn of events, retire a little earlier, gradually increase his spending, and (drum roll please)...be more or less fine.

Unsatisfactorily - perversely, even - the only time you could actually quantify the "success" of either path (provided you believe that a "successful" retirement is one in which you end up having spent the most amount of money) is when it's too late to do anything at all about it. As in, when you're both dead.

Participating in Market Returns vs. Driving Like a Lunatic

This, incidentally, is one of the reasons we can talk about and mostly agree on reasonable expectations for future market returns on average over the next ten years while being completely unable to do the same thing for the return you personally will earn over the next ten years

While in an ideal world, you and your neighbour both keep your head, invest regularly through thick and thin, and rebalance on schedule, it's entirely likely that - here in the real world - at least one of you will lose your head, stop investing when markets are down, throw your money into the ring again when markets have been up for a year, and stop rebalancing entirely because the thought of selling a winner to buy a loser gives you hives.

How to Worry Less About Your Sequence of Returns (Spoiler Alert: It Involves Sacrifice)

If the only thing you take away from this piece is that you need to have realistic expectations in order to avoid bad decisions in moments of panic or over confidence, that's great. If it has convinced you to fold your hands, shrug your shoulders, and invest in a low cost, well-diversified, and balanced portfolio of stocks and bonds that you add to regularly, rebalance annually, decrease the stock side gradually, and forget about for the rest of the year, well...that's great too. 

Bad behaviour is much easier to avoid if you truly believe that - outside of setting up a good infrastructure - there is nothing you or especially the expensive money manager with the big promises can do to change the outcome of your investments.

But what I'd really like to accomplish with this piece is to lay the foundation for you to truly understand the five possible actions that you can take as you approach retirement and look for ways to avoid the worst that sequence of return risk can do to you. They are easy to type, and sound almost cavalierly pat when said out loud, but are simultaneously the most difficult and astonishingly simple actions you can take:

  1. Save more now,

  2. Spend less now and in retirement,

  3. Work longer (which just another way of saying "save more and spend less"),

  4. Increase the amount of guaranteed income you'll have in retirement, or

  5. Some combination of all four.

"Save more now" you're already pretty familiar with, I'm sure, and you're likely even more familiar with "spend less now and in retirement", since it's often the easiest solution to offer and understand.

Each involves sacrifice. For example, a very smart person could have realized by now that a clever way to avoid sequence of return risk is to save enough so that you can live on only the dividends and interest that the portfolio spins out, bypassing the need to sell anything in order to live comfortably. That very smart person likely worked very, very hard to increase her income and saved enormous amounts of it. That very smart person will spend none of her capital and will have very fortunate heirs.

"Work longer" might be impossible to follow through on, depending on your health and whether there's work to be had, so for most people a more reasonable recommendation might be to "plan on considering the possibility of working longer than you'd like, but don't rely on it".

"Increase the amount of guaranteed income you'll have in retirement" is an almost universally applicable piece of retirement planning advice, and although it comes with its own sacrifices, it's one you should pay attention to. Every dollar that you get from guaranteed income - that is, Old Age Security, the Canada Pension Plan, and/or a defined benefit pension plan, and/or an annuity - is one less dollar you have to withdraw from your investments when markets are down.

Of course, the kind of guaranteed income you buy over your lifetime of work like CPP or a pension, or all at once like an annuity is purchased at the expense of having one less dollar available to be invested as markets go up.

The sacrifice involved in increasing your guaranteed income is of the "woulda, coulda, shoulda" variety, as in "if I had only known that I would get a really favourable sequence of returns in retirement, I wouldn't have bought that annuity", or "if only I had know that I would get a very bad sequence of returns in retirement, I would have bought an annuity instead", or "if I had only known that I'd die at age 70, I wouldn't have cared" and - again - is quantifiable only when it is too late to make a difference.

Maximizing your guaranteed income can seem expensive, which is why most of us can only afford to increase a few slices of our retirement income rather than the whole pie. It's also why the solution for most regular people worried about sequence of returns risk could be pretty easily summarized as "save a little more, spend a little less, work a little longer, and use some of your savings to buy an annuity."

Oh, and exercise those contentment muscles.

(You'll note that "increase your stock allocation in order to juice your returns if you're close to retirement and feel like you haven't saved enough" isn't one of the possible solutions.

Read Wade Pfau's recent piece Stocks for Retirement for some good argument and counterargument on that front.)

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Further Reading:

How Your Birthdate Can Impact Your Financial Affairs and Retirement Mark Goodfield

Sequence of Returns Risk: What's That Mean? Dirk Cotton

Retirement Ruin and the Sequence of Returns, Moshe Milevsky

You Can't Control When You're Born: Revisiting Sequence of Returns Risk, Wade Pfau 

Cooking At Home To Save Money Will Still Cost You

So you’re spending more than you earn and need to cut back, eh? Let me guess: the culprits are Eating Out and Buying Stuff, and the internet has solved your problem by telling you that buying less stuff and cooking at home to save money are the answers.

Am I right?

As much as I hate to admit it, the internet is mostly right on this one. But the internet is also woefully naive. Let’s take cooking at home as our case study and examine why - while it’s the right choice for so many reasons - it’s also not as easy as saying “I’ll cook at home and fix all my problems”. As usual, I want to discourage you a little before encouraging you, because I want you to understand that the right choices aren’t always easy - and sometimes aren’t even right.

Cooking at home to save money with a baby and a full-time job

When I went back to work after my first son was born, a time that (not coincidentally) was also the first time my husband and I got serious about cutting back our spending so we could afford daycare (among other things), it was a time of enormous personal stress.

I was too sleep-deprived to articulate it at the time, but learning to spend less than we earned was very difficult because we didn’t have the resources to do so.

For us, cooking at home (instead of picking something up in the rush of getting back from work, getting the baby from daycare before they started charging five dollars a minute, and trying to squeeze “real life” with our son into the hours of six to seven-thirty every night) was the “easy” solution that would save us untold riches every year.

But cooking at home takes resources that eating out does not: it takes time. It takes a certain amount of skill. Most of all, it takes capacity - that is, the emotional resilience to stick with a difficult or stressful choice until it becomes less difficult and/or less stressful.

Now, keep in mind, we already knew how to cook. We already owned the pots and pans and whisks, the meat thermometer, the trays, bowls, measuring cups, and oven mitts. For those of you who didn’t grow up cooking or didn’t receive a ridiculous amount of kitchen gear when you got married, buying the basics is one of those “spending money to save money” paradoxes that can be hard to stomach if you’re already short on cash.

Yes, cooking at home saves money

Cooking (and packing up the leftovers for lunch at work the next day) reduced our spending on food to $110 per week for two adults and a toddler. That’s $2.33 per meal, and while I'd love to give you a triumphant comparison of the amount we spent on food before we committed to cooking at home, part of the reason we had to cut back was because we had no idea how we were spending our money in the first place, so the data is lost to history.

I’d estimate that we ate out at least five times a week (including lunches), and the meals we did cook (or “cook”) weren’t planned, so our grocery shopping was haphazard, wasteful, and - because it included a lot of pre-made stuff - cost us a lot more money for a lot fewer meals. A conservative estimate might be something like $210 every week, which works out to $5,200 in unnecessary spending on food every year.

You're still spending, you're just not spending money

The amount of money you can save every year by cooking at home is significant, but saving that money means spending one of your other equally precious resources: time or capacity. It might even mean spending social capital if you’re in a competitive profession that implicitly (or explicitly) requires very long working days and frequent lunches or dinners out with colleagues or superiors or clients.

So what does that mean in practical terms? So far, it sounds like I’ve been advocating for you to learn to cook no matter what because it will save you money, and for some of you that might actually be the only solution. If you’ve already tried to find ways to increase your income, reduce your big expenses like housing and transportation, haven’t bought anything unnecessary in months, and are still having trouble making ends meet, cooking at home might be the last frontier that you have to conquer no matter how thinly your resources are spread.In our case, cooking became a habit that stuck. We enjoy it, in fact, which makes it a (slightly) easier default than takeout on those nights that include badminton, client calls, and podcast episodes.

For others, those with more money and less time, maybe cooking at home - exclusively, anyway - isn’t the panacea the internet is telling you it is. Maybe you’ll need to compromise on other things - the kind of car you drive, or driving at all, vacations, rent, television, or Buying Stuff - so you can still feed yourself and work the long hours that are bringing in the money.

If you live in a bigger city, you could sign up for one of the many meal-delivery companies that are more expensive than cooking from scratch but less expensive than eating out at nine o’clock at night because that’s when you’re finished work.

The easy hard answer

Cooking at home to save money will cost you in other ways, and you need to be prepared to sacrifice other resources. I’d love to tell you what to do, but easy answers aren’t my specialty.

The hard answer is this: if you want to get your spending on food or any other category to line up with your income and goals, you’ll have to spend one of your other resources - your time, your capacity, even your social capital - until it doesn’t feel like a sacrifice anymore.